That's All Folks - #46

I think sharing my dating exploits on my blog have come to an end. I have enjoyed sharing my dating adventures and my own insights and observations on men and women. I truly enjoy writing and channeling Sarah Jessica Parker's SATC character. But, I cherish the moments right now and thoroughly am enjoying my dating life and I don't think it is right to share these very personal and special moments. So I am suspending sharing my dating stories for now. There are many dates going on and they are awesome!

I do want to close out this blog series by saying that the guy that you hope and dream and pray for is out there and he will be better than what you hoped, dreamed, and prayed for so don't give up! But do continue going out on dates, all those one-and-done dates and dating around helped me figure out things about myself first and foremost and also helped me to better recognize the something special that I found.

Easy - #45

It is easy. I can't believe how easy this relationship is. I know issues will come but right now I feel like we can do anything if we trust each other and communicate. My aunt once told me "A relationship should be easy...especially in this time of your life. There are plenty of times where it will be complicated when you are married and have kids...it will be hard...but now should be easy." I always thought that made since but it wasn't until I found easy that I truly appreciate and understand it. I think it is easy because you are with the one you are supposed to be with and because the lines of communication are wide open. So look for easy...who wants hard and complicated and yucky anyway, easy is enjoyable and fun.

Making it Work - #44

I have been in relationships that I felt like I had to make it work but I think relationships are best when they just work. I am not saying that it won't ever take work but if you do key things like communicate and you are open with feelings, thoughts, past hurts, etc then it seems to go a long way. I also think an unwritten connection also helps. I am glad to be in a relationship where I don't feel like I have to make it work but rather it just works.